February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month.
Love is Respect continue to educate teens, parents and communities on dating violence. We live in a world of technology where today it’s not only about physical and verbal abuse, people are suffering with digital abuse.
What is digital abuse?
You deserve to be in a safe and healthy relationship, both in person or online. If your partner is digitally abusive, know their behavior is not acceptable and could be illegal. Check out our tips below for staying safe on social networking sites like Facebook, Twitter, foursquare and others.
- Only post things you want the public to see or know. Once it’s online, it’s no longer under your control.
- Be protective of your personal information. Your phone numbers and addresses enable people to contact you directly, and things like your birth date, the schools you attended, your employer and photos with landmarks may make it easier for someone to find where you live, hang out or go to school.
- Set boundaries and limits. Tell people not to post personal information, negative comments or check-ins about you on social media. Ask people not to post or tag pictures if you’re not comfortable with it.
- You can keep your passwords private — sharing passwords is not a requirement of being in a relationship.
- Don’t do or say anything online you wouldn’t in person. It may seem easier to express yourself when you are not face-to-face, but online communication can have real-life negative consequences.
Learn more – visit www.loveisrespect.org
The 2014 Workplace Bullying Institute survey (PDF) was released.
37 million workers reported being subjected to “abusive conduct” and 65.5 million are affected by this behavior. Whether it was those abused or people that witnessed it, peer cruelty is happening in workplaces across our country.
We often discuss children when it comes to bullying and cyberbullying. Sadly adult bullying topics are rarely in the headlines.
This is not to diminish the fact that our youth are important, the fact they are killing themselves over words of hatred and learning to treat each other with such cruelty is despicable.
We have to take a moment to realize, does it start at the top?
Parents, teachers, coaches and all grownups, especially those in the workplace should be people that our children respect.
The recent PSA released by VH1 is a reminder that the very people may be making fun of today could end up being your bosses for later. Like with many ad-campaigns, it can be extreme. Sadly the fact that many kids are tormented and harassed is true.
Is the PSA tasteful? There are many opinions. The message is there, and that is what needs to be heard.
No one is immune to bullying. At any age it is not right. Kindness will always take you so much further in life.
#iCANHELP Campaign continues to spread nationwide with their message that kindness can defeat negativity.
A few negative posts can leave you feeling alone and isolated. However, all it takes is one person noticing something good and complimenting our day to erase all of the negativity that is following us around.
Simple acts of kindness happen everyday and they can make the world of difference in a person’s life.
#iCANHELP Campaign is about deleting negativity on social media but it is also about being a positive warrior in life. Everything they do is about kindness and compassion towards others.
There many campaigns that I have written about all have positive messages that help promote civility to all online and off.
Check out their latest video – ERASE HATE and take the time to promote kindness in someone that needs to hear it today!
Join them on Facebook and follow them on Twitter.
Remember, don’t change who you are or what you stand for just because you are online!
This PSA shows mean texts being corrected with kind messages. We hope to encourage teens to ‘delete the mean‘.
AND: one of our TRUCE members wrote the song!!
A group of Marin Co teens have started TRUCE to promote Cyber-Kindness.
We support kindness in general, but cyber-bullying is so hard to look away from, so we started TRUCE:
It is National Bullying Prevention Month. uWillstand is bring the world together to make a difference! Pin your location!
The music video for Stand the Anthem united youth across 17 states & 6 countries. Performed by Charleigh and Justin Gere “Stand” http://www.willustand.com Help us share the message of Stand with schools all across the nation and worldwide during October’s National Bullying Prevention Month. Use hashtags #willUstand and #StandtheAnthem, please share generously.
Saturday, April 27th.
Nease High School is the location.
Starting at 9:00am the Community Empowerment Series will have their final event with one of the hottest topics that reaches everyone with a keypad or a cell phone.
Especially those teenagers that are are heading to prom that evening. Before you snap those picture and post those questionable comments, you will benefit from this event featuring Theresa Payton. She is one of our countries leading cyber safety experts and will be discussing cyber bullying, identity theft, and cell phone safety including sexting.
Did you know?
· Over 95% of teens use social networking
· Last year over 500,000 kids had their online identity stolen
*85% of teens have been cyber bullied at least once
· Sexting: 71% of teen girls and 67% of teen boys have participated in posting/sending sexually suggestive content.
Dr. Joseph Joyner is recommending that every teacher, parent and student attends this event and takes advantage of this learning experience.
St. Johns County Sheriff Shoar will be introducing Theresa Payton and will have his team available with literature for our community regarding Internet safety and our kids.
This is a FREE event and open to the public. It is presented by the St. Johns County Education Foundation and Communities in Schools of St. Johns County and sponsored by The St. Augustine Record, First Coast News and other generous donors.
Online registration is recommended.
Learn more at www.communityempowermentseries.com.
Social networking and etiquette.
Years ago raising our children never included teaching them social media manners. Today, however, your social networking etiquette could determine whether you get into your college of choice and land the job you have been dreaming of.
Social media forums have some real up sides, we can’t deny that. When it comes to staying in touch with far-flung friends and family and being up to speed with all the latest and greatest in news and gossip, it’s been a real blessing to have social networking sites like Twitter.
We just wish that some kids/teens didn’t suffer from some side-effects of overuse.
Here are 7 bad habits that kids pick up from Twitter:
- Poor Grammar – We’ve seen this from chat room usage, text messaging, and IM’s; so it’s nothing that’s really new. The 140-character limit and Twitter’s wildly popular platform just seem to exacerbate the problem to a far greater degree.
- Time Management – Let’s be frank, this isn’t just a problem for kids, but it poses a greater threat to them, since they haven’t yet learned to balance their time between work and leisure to the extent they will need to as adults.
- Following Celebrities – On the surface, and with proper balance, there’s nothing inherently wrong with corresponding with celebrities. In fact it’s one of the great things about Twitter. The danger is in placing more emphasis on the posts of the famous, re-tweeting every little blurb as though it were sage wisdom, all just because of the person’s celebrity status.
- Public Venting – It’s good to have outlets for our anger and frustration, so long as they are safe and private. The trend these days apparently is to go to your profile and launch into a thoughtless tirade when the mood swings. Not a wise or healthy habit and one that can end up backfiring on you.
- Loss of Originality – This isn’t a widespread thing, but it’s something we are seeing more and more often. Re-tweets are another form of showing approval, like a thumbs-up or a like. Used in that way, they’re vaguely useful and certainly harmless enough. The difference is that re-tweets at times almost seem like recitations, with RT’ers supplanting original thought in favor of aping whatever post happens to be popular at the time.
- Auto-Following – In this context, it’s more or less seen as a polite reciprocation of a friendly gesture. It can be done automatically with an app, or manually on a tit-for-tat basis. The thing is, following someone should be based on individual merit, as determined by the follower, on a case-by-case basis. Kids need to establish these parameters and values in their lives now, and not toss them aside in a social networking environment.
- Blurring the Lines – This is a virtually universal issue, in that it affects people of various ages, backgrounds and occupations. There seems to be little if any distinction for so many of us, between our personal and professional lives, as we embrace these social media sites.
Source: Become A Nanny
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